Last week was somewhat sobering for me.
First, I met with a lady for the second time in as many weeks about selling her beautiful Ballantyne home. Let’s call her Jane for this posting. Very little of our time was spent actually talking about staging the house, painting rooms, replacing carpet, etc. No, Jane and I talked about how was she was going to be able to sell the property and pay off the mortgage. Unfortunately, she bought her home at the peak of the real estate market and did not put very much money down towards the purchase. Today, Jane’s home is worth about 18% less than she purchased it for, but she owes a lot more on the mortgage. I actually felt more like a counselor than a real estate agent. Tears, strong emotions, and sadness. It was heart breaking!
Second, I follow real estate consultant Steve Harney’s daily blog postings. Steve does a great job of crystallizing the news reporting, market statistics, and salient data into information I can use in my career. On Friday, Steve varied from his usual postings and wrote an open letter to his followers. In that letter, Steve wrote about his financial problems which occurred in 1990. Steve wrote, “I couldn’t afford to pay my bills. I was married and had two young sons. My home was approaching foreclosure. I didn’t know what to do and I was afraid to talk to anyone about my troubles. I was too embarrassed. I was depressed and ready to give up. Foreclosure seemed to be the only option.”
Now what? For Steve, help came in the form of a peer named Michael. Michael and Steve sat down and formulated a plan for getting Steve and his family out of debt. First, it involved selling the house. It was simply more than he could afford. The plan also included paying off his other debts, re-establishing his credit, and funding his kids’ college education. Steve says those were two tough years.
Back to Jane’s story. Jane is a proud homeowner. Prior to this home, she had never owned a home. She had to clean up some credit issues in order to purchase the home and did not want to let this new dilemma to destroy all that she had worked so hard for.
Jane did not know what to do. Her career was taking her to a new city so was being forced to face the issue. We looked at all the options…foreclosure, short sale, renting, taking money from retirement, etc. None of the choices would be particularly pleasant. But, up to that moment, the struggle with what to do was greater than anything to come. What Jane needed was exactly what Steve had in the early 1990s. Jane needed a person to talk to who could help her understand the options and make a plan to move forward. Worrying was killing her, but dealing with it is going to save her life!
Ballantyne is a very vibrant and highly sought after community…still. We are all proud to members of the Ballantyne community. However, Ballantyne has not been exempt from the housing downturn. Swallow your pride and reach out to someone to provide you with the knowledge you need make a solid real estate decision if you are confused and worried.
Need to sell your house? Are you worried you might never be able to sell your home? Do you owe more on your home than it is worth? Does it seem like there is no way to turn that is going to provide relief? Giving up is the worst thing you can do. Discuss the options and make a plan. The banks, home lenders and government are all working to ramp up efforts to help out distressed homeowners. If you want to start with a plan that starts with your home, contact a real estate agent today—real estate agents have pretty much seen everything and know how to help.
Want to learn more about the different options you have available? Please don’t hesitate to send me an email at david.huss@allentate.com. Also, I have a guide titled “Making a Plan to Get Out of Debt.” Just request this and I will forward this to you.
You can read Steve’s Letter by clicking on the link.